{"id":4342,"date":"2023-04-05T10:46:22","date_gmt":"2023-04-05T09:46:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.redkitesolicitors.co.uk\/?p=4342"},"modified":"2023-04-05T10:51:57","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T09:51:57","slug":"how-do-you-deal-with-school-holidays-as-a-separated-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.redkitesolicitors.co.uk\/legal-news\/how-do-you-deal-with-school-holidays-as-a-separated-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"How do you deal with school holidays as a separated parent?"},"content":{"rendered":"

With Easter approaching in early April and half-term and the summer holidays following not too far behind, how do you address arrangements for your children in the school holidays as a separated parent.\u00a0 This is something we are often asked to assist with, and so here are our top tips for a smooth holiday period.<\/p>\n

Plan ahead<\/h2>\n

Discuss holiday plans with your ex-partner well in advance to avoid any last-minute conflicts.\u00a0 This will allow time for you both to consider the other\u2019s proposal and try to reach an agreement.<\/p>\n

If you aren\u2019t able to reach an agreement, you might need to consider a court application, but this can take quite some time so if this is necessary, you would need to do it sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n

Follow the court order<\/h2>\n

If you have a court order in place, make sure you follow it unless you have agreed a variation with your ex. Court orders will often set out arrangements for holiday periods, including Easter, and so you should follow those provisions unless you are able to agree with your ex to change them.<\/p>\n

If you need to change the arrangements and aren\u2019t able to agree, you might need to make an application back to the court for a variation, but you should take legal advice on this as sometimes this might not be appropriate. The starting point should be that you stick to the court order unless you can agree an alternative arrangement, as changing the arrangements unilaterally could put you at risk of court proceedings for breach of the order.<\/p>\n

Be flexible<\/h2>\n

If possible, be open to compromise and be flexible when planning holidays. It’s important to put your child’s needs first, so try to come up with a schedule that works for everyone and be open to considering your ex\u2019s point of view.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Communicate effectively<\/h2>\n

Keep communication channels open with your ex-partner during the holidays. Use email, WhatsApp or other written communication methods where possible, as these are easier to track in case of any disputes.\u00a0 You might also consider a family contact app such as Our Family Wizard or AppClose.<\/p>\n

Keep things civil<\/h2>\n

Holidays can be tough for children of separated parents as they might witness or sense disputes between them. Try to make things as easy as possible for your child by remaining civil with the other parent if at all possible.\u00a0 Remember, children are good at sensing tension.<\/p>\n

Seek professional support if required<\/h2>\n

If you find it difficult to deal with holidays as a separated parent, seek help from a therapist or support group. They can provide advice and guidance on how to cope with the challenges of separation.\u00a0 And contact a lawyer if you need legal support to deal with agreeing arrangements, or even making a court application if necessary.<\/p>\n

For more information or to discuss any family law query, contact:<\/p>\n

Paula Tanner<\/p>\n

RedKite Law Swansea<\/p>\n

01792 952971<\/a> \/ paula.tanner@redkitelaw.co.uk<\/a><\/p>\n

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